Many little things can happen in everyday life. Depending on your outlook you might think that complaining about any odd thing is part of being – demanding. Proving that you have ‘standards’ and do not put up with everything.
On the other hand it has been scientifically proven that getting into arguments and fights often, ‘saps your energy’:
That kind of energy that you feel is missing after emotional times; such as important, life-changing exams.
When you want to stay healthy and keep your ‘nerves in order’ you may want to think again about complaining. About fighting because of small annoyances.
There’s that little interesting story in workplace psychology that those who don’t complain are eventually ‘killed’ – as in: let go – just as the chicks of turkey are – speared by their mothers’ beaks because they consider the chicks to be dangerous strangers for not ‘crying out’; squeal.
I have gone through many hard times in the course of my life. Considering. I learned the hard way to keep my ‘nerves in order’.
So often, when we cool down we also will find that things are not that bad: Even deserve praise, actually. I learned that, too.
To change perspective can make all the difference.
“Pick your battles”. To live and fight another day.